For every action, there is an equal opposite reaction. This comes from Sir Isaac Newton’s third law of motion.
Life, itself, is motion. I have been on my equanimity journey for some time now and I find that living an authentic life magnifies this law of motion. The hardest part thus far has been practicing detachment. The art of detachment allows for freedom in your life but no one really talks about the struggle of also wanting a connection.
There is so much power in detaching from situations and people who do not add value to your life. It feels good to operate from an authentic place but it can be a lonely journey. I don’t want to invite just anything into my life but what I want in my life is special and not something you find every day.
When you develop the ability to discern between what is and is not for you, you become harder to manipulate and thus less desirable. The world is built by those with strong abilities to manipulate for their own personal power. When they can’t make you fall in line, you become a problem. No one likes problems.
Most people prefer not to go against the grain because it puts them on the outside. It forces you to toss old programming and traditions out the window in order to live the life that makes senses to you. When you see life from the lens of your authentic self, you can’t fall in line with just anything or anyone. Herein lies the price.
Everything has a price tag. The cost of detachment is connection. The more detached you are, the less likely you will find a connection that suites your authentic needs. The key is to continue loving yourself and believing that you are doing the best for your life and the price paid will feel insignificant. Though it may feel impossible in the moment, love yourself anyway. Though it may feel like the price is high, remember that your authentic self is worth it.
What is something that is costing you right now that you need a reminder to love yourself?
Look Within 