Equanimity, Freedom

When love feels like hate

I have heard many times from people I no longer interact with that I hate them, when all I am doing is showing love. It’s a conundrum. It’s scenarios that can you make you feel like you are choosing wrong when all you are doing is choosing yourself. Love is an action word that is… Continue reading When love feels like hate

Equanimity

Emotions vs Reality

We are the source of all our suffering. The catalyst for the suffering varies but most times, we suffer because we don’t want to see reality. One thing about me is that I am guided by my heart. I show up for people to the fullest up front because spreading love is such an important… Continue reading Emotions vs Reality

Equanimity

“I’m sorry you feel that way”

I was recently sent the message, “I’m sorry you feel that way,” in response to my expression of feelings concerning a lack of communication and consideration. This wasn’t the first time I’ve seen this message so I knew not to engage. This phrase outlines the speaker’s lack of emotional availability and maturity to handle accountability… Continue reading “I’m sorry you feel that way”

Equanimity

Thwarted by Expectations

One of the most difficult things I am unlearning is the idea of expectations. Expectations are a source of disappointment and sadness. Expectations also distract from the present moment and cause us to miss the unexpected greatness of being present. Society has created a set of rules and boxes that are to define every situation… Continue reading Thwarted by Expectations

Equanimity, Spirituality, Thoughts

Beware of the EGO invasion

The ego is a fragile and necessary component to our existence. It gives us a sense of self and allow us the ability to interact with the physical world. In my spiritual journey, I have been learning about how the ego is necessary for the human experience. I believe that we all come from one… Continue reading Beware of the EGO invasion

Equanimity, Thoughts

Find security within yourself

We are currently living in uncertain times yet I find myself feeling more certain about being myself. Letting go of my insecurities is a beautiful process. I feel a load lifting and more free to speak my inner thoughts and feelings. I rarely let people in and now I say: ‘forget that.’ life is too… Continue reading Find security within yourself