Equanimity

Emotions vs Reality

We are the source of all our suffering. The catalyst for the suffering varies but most times, we suffer because we don’t want to see reality. One thing about me is that I am guided by my heart. I show up for people to the fullest up front because spreading love is such an important… Continue reading Emotions vs Reality

Equanimity

Your unlimited potential

I’m reading this book titled Melanin Empath by Jade Asikiwe and a quote inspired me to write this post as a call to action. It said “There’s no single place on Earth that is wealthier than a graveyard. The graveyard is filled with the unlimited potential of all the people who have been laid to… Continue reading Your unlimited potential

Equanimity

Internal Battles

We all have internal turmoil that we deal with on a daily basis, most times we deal with them alone. In numerous ways, we have been conditioned to believe that we are supposed to behave in specific ways and have certain thoughts and beliefs that align with others. But I find that when I am… Continue reading Internal Battles

Equanimity

Thwarted by Expectations

One of the most difficult things I am unlearning is the idea of expectations. Expectations are a source of disappointment and sadness. Expectations also distract from the present moment and cause us to miss the unexpected greatness of being present. Society has created a set of rules and boxes that are to define every situation… Continue reading Thwarted by Expectations

Equanimity, Freedom, Thoughts

You are the author of your story

If I could pinpoint one pet peeve I’ve carried my whole life, it would be my displeasure in being portrayed falsely or misrepresented. I have always disliked when someone would lie or assume who I am, what I do/did or how I think/feel. I wouldn’t react per se; I would correct them or defend myself.… Continue reading You are the author of your story

Equanimity, Freedom

Super Brain Power

2022 was a compelling year. It was essentially the best and worst year for me. I endured trauma and abuse, which unlocked a superpower. I have always been an overthinker. I analyzed everything, but after my traumatic experiences, my brain was unlocked, and I was able to subconsciously look for problems within my interpersonal interaction… Continue reading Super Brain Power