Equanimity, Freedom, Thoughts

You are the author of your story

If I could pinpoint one pet peeve I’ve carried my whole life, it would be my displeasure in being portrayed falsely or misrepresented. I have always disliked when someone would lie or assume who I am, what I do/did or how I think/feel. I wouldn’t react per se; I would correct them or defend myself.… Continue reading You are the author of your story

Equanimity, Thoughts

Everyone deserves to be loved

It is such a beautiful feeling to be loved. I used to think that love was simply caring for someone as you would care for yourself. I now realize that not everyone knows how to even love or care for themselves and that is not conducive to them loving another human being. Still, everyone deserves… Continue reading Everyone deserves to be loved

Equanimity, Thoughts

Black. White. Grey. Life…

People have an unhealthy attachment with putting themselves and others into categories. With this obsession, rules emerged and separating the world into the "haves" and "have nots". By societal definition, I mostly belong to that "have not" category. I am not classically beautiful, outgoing, have a milky complexion, tall, skinny, etc. But I am mostly… Continue reading Black. White. Grey. Life…

Equanimity, Freedom, Thoughts

Forgiveness.

Forgiveness... is more than saying sorry... Forgiveness is about giving yourself peace and letting go of past hurts.  I attended a church service where the message was about forgiveness. The point of this message was to say when you don't forgive someone who has wronged you, you stand in the way of God taking care… Continue reading Forgiveness.